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Emerging from the pandemic

June 23, 2021

Emerging from the pandemic

Over the past 15 months most of us have spent a lot of time cocooning and now, at least in most of Europe and the US, it’s time to gradually emerge. We haven’t turned into butterflies, but many of us feel that we’ve changed during this challenging time. We are longing to return to “normal life”, but what is normal? Life is one-directional; we can’t just erase what we’ve experienced and go back to how things were. Many of us are feeling fragile and vulnerable and need time and space to discover how we want to engage with the wider world. Transformation can be painful; we are often leaving parts of ourselves behind or have experienced losses. Some of us may need to go through a process of grieving, but it’s important not to get stuck there.

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The Child Within

May 26, 2021

The Child Within

The phrase “inner child” has been so trivialized by pop psychology that we often use it without thinking about what we mean. I’ve heard people refer to their inner child with a disdain and flippancy amounting to inner child abuse, disparaging one of their most precious inner resources. Each of us carries within all of the memories of our childhood experience. Though we are conscious of only a few of them, they together form our personal internalization of being a child: all of the joys, delights, hurts, frustrations and fears. How we treat this part of ourselves can have a powerful impact on our well-being.

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Life Space

May 12, 2021

Life Space

Space, according to the New Oxford English Dictionary, means “a continuous area or expanse which is free, available, or unoccupied.” I find something tantalizing and liberating about the word “expanse” in that definition. I don’t usually think of my space in those terms. Do you? The second definition reads: “the dimensions of height, depth, and width within which all things exist and move.” Along with time, space is the medium of our existence, but how aware are we of its importance?

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An Antidote to VUCA

April 28, 2021

An Antidote to VUCA

How to create more predictability, certainty, simplicity and clarity in your life. Especially in large international companies, the acronym VUCA is frequently used to describe the world we live in. It stands for volatility, uncertainty, complexity and ambiguity. Coined in 1987, the acronym became popular in the early 2000s as businesses realized that a different type of organizational structure and leadership style were necessary to succeed in the increasingly unpredictable and rapidly changing environment resulting from globalization and digitalization. Organizations needed to become more flexible and responsive, and started moving away from fixed, hierarchical structures. Leaders were challenged to lead by providing vision, inspiration and support to their people, empowering them rather than telling them what to do as in traditional command and control environments. Matrix organizations, agility and transformational leadership are all examples of responses to VUCA.

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A Crash Course in Vulnerability and Resilience

April 14, 2021

A Crash Course in Vulnerability and Resilience

After a diagnosis of bone-on-bone osteoarthritis in early January, I decide not to delay the inevitable hip replacement surgery, but to take the first available date the surgeon offered, ten days later. Since Switzerland was in lockdown, it made sense to take advantage of the pandemic, in the hope of being fully fit/recovered? by summer. I naively thought that the hospital stay and recuperation period would be restful, giving me lots of time to read and write. Although I have had surgery before, I “forgot” the harsh reality of being consumed by pain and nearly 100% dependent on others.

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Consider the lilies of the field

March 31, 2021

Consider the lilies of the field

Every spring I am amazed anew at nature’s unfolding display of color and beauty: first the snowbells peeking out, followed by crocuses and primroses bringing the first color, the magnolias sensuously opening on bare branches, then the tender green leaves in the trees, followed by the scented blooms of lilac, wisteria, and lilies of the valley. Regardless of how grey the sky may be, they share their ebullience. I know that if I don’t take the time to enjoy them, right then when they present themselves, it will be my loss. Yet again and again I realize that I am walking by, too absorbed in my thoughts to notice the abundance that surrounds me.

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Listen from Your Heart

March 17, 2021

Listen from Your Heart

Think of a time when you were listened to wholeheartedly. How did it feel? Perhaps you sensed a deep acceptance of yourself and your feelings from the other person. Perhaps you experienced the expansiveness of freedom to be yourself. For most of us, this experience is rare. Especially when we want to express difficult feelings, we are afraid of being rejected or brushed aside. As children, we may have had our feelings negated by an overwhelmed parent saying, “Stop crying” or “You shouldn’t get so upset about that.” We may also have experienced this as adults, perhaps from a defensive partner, boss or colleague. If we think back honestly, we have all been closed-hearted listeners at one time or another. Where does this inclination to block out what someone else is saying come from?

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The Life Worth Living

March 3, 2021

The Life Worth Living

Socrates warned us that the unexamined life is not worth living; the oracle at Delphi exhorted us to know ourselves. Since the dawn of consciousness, people have sought answers to life’s essential questions: What does it mean to be human? What is the purpose of my life? What is truly important to me? How can I lead a happy and fulfilling life?

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